**Vulnerable Post**

I just wanted to take a moment to say how very grateful I am for you.  Thank you for following along, for reading my blog, for the feedback, messages, emails and most of all for letting me be me. 

When I first started blogging I was honestly terrified of so many things.  What would people think of me?  What was I doing? Was I a bad mom?  Was I not a good friend?  The weirdest part for me was posting pictures of myself, lol.  especially because at the time I had no idea what a fashion blogger really was?  And I also was not a huge social media “sharer”..even on my personal ig page. 

If anyone else is in the same situation of doubting yourself or worried what others think of you, I have one bit of advice that has really helped me.  That advice is : PURPOSE.   Once I got out of my own head…and really questioned “WHY am I doing this”…everything changed.  For me it was realizing that I had this creative part of me that could help others. Every time you see one of my instagram posts, stories, blog posts, newsletters etc…  I have thought to myself “how will this help others”.   If I don’t see any value add to the post I will NOT publish it.  Once you come from a place of helping others you will begin to minimize the voices in your head telling you all the doubts and worries. 

I hope this helps and makes sense?  I’m planning to write a longer post on this topic of “self doubt & getting out of our own ways”.  I would love to hear if you have any specific questions or ideas I can add to that upcoming post???  Let me know here:



 A big congratulations to @saysableu for winning!! 

Thanks to everyone who entered! 

I truly wish I could have picked ALL OF YOU…so with that I decided to host another one this week!! 

Stay tuned, can’t wait!…. xx


Thank you so much for stopping by!  


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